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Tobias Barrington Wolff's avatar

This is a stunning piece of writing.

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April Langley's avatar

Dear Sistah

I understand. As I read my heart was full and I am grateful to you for the baring of your loss. It's been 649 days since my loss and this comment is my first "public" acknowledgement. As always, you are not only the "book smart" brilliant badass PhD who ain't afraid to wax eloquently and speak/write honestly about what really matters. Today, as I often do when I hear your voice, hear you--the gravesite is no place for the living as live we must, even as we mourn. But it's hard as hell, and getting out of bed, breathing, and functioning as a humyn is some serious business.

With love, and a special hard Black woman/sistah hug to you from me.

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